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Is marriage a necessity or it is out of date and obsolete? 1

Is marriage a necessity or it is out of date and obsolete?

It has been a great immense in a life of any individual when he/she is going to be married. Those moments are the most precious one when a girl and boy are tied in an invisible thread of love for their entire life, but due to the modern changes in our present trends we can find many of such strings are getting broken up, as many of the couples are breaking their relations ending up with divorce. Marriage is a much more profound than just our contemporary which causes us to build trust. As mentioned it is a lifelong concern, everlasting commitment which restrains self-indulgence and gratification.

But if this commitment is minimized just as a mere contract, then the word ‘marriage’ is left with no meaning. It ceases all our self-centered passions, it not only just harms our relationship rather it also harms other peoples such as family members in front of our society. In our present scenario Marriage is losing its appeal as we can find a very high frequency of divorce approximately 35 percent. Moreover the institutions of marriage as a religious and legal bond are considered to be outdated in our modern world.

Argument #1: An artifact of ancient tribal societies.

Any such wedding which is basically done with an intentions to ensure the inheritance of property or to sustain the bloodlines are rarely seen to be successful. It is always necessary to legitimize our children’s for the proper leadership, because none of the treaties, leadership or accumulations is acquired by the blood lines.

According to my perception I must say NO, it is a part of our tradition, which is still not outdated. I think it always is around us by providing the nature of humans which is evolved in our society. We can find various differences with the ideas of individuals but it is not accepted for the thoughts and belief of all the peoples.

Argument #2:

Yes, I think it is still of much importance in each of the society as a rational view of what actually signifies the relationship- if love is a major transient, than it is of much importance to have a foundation which can support those couples to get united. Parents cannot force their children’s to live their life as they are the one to guide us.

Moreover I must say that the major hurdles among an individual getting committed by a girl is raised because of the society. Now days we can discover various relationship counselors that helps us to resolve all our marital disputes which is mostly seen in those marriage which is done against the actual wish of the bride.

Argument #3:

Yes, Marriage is an institution of religion still sustains its validity in our community which mostly comprises our Christianity religion acquiring most of the area in U.S. For any of the atheists any marriage does not represent any need of religious bonding, rather it may be a socially recognized approval or the commitment among both of the couple.

I must say No, because the primary intention of a wedding is mostly religious among the perception of most of the people. Even in the present scenario of our society, we can see the declining popularity among the British society, as it is too much diversity to resemble any of the moral values among the peoples.

CONCLUSION:

As we have discussed much about the importance and value of the marriage in our community, it defines it as a human relationship and must never be taken lightly because it is related to one’s life which is going to be sustained with his/her soul mate. In our community as we can see most of the peoples resembles Christianity, and believe in Lord Jesus, even we show that the wedding is concerned with the religious part. Hence it must be considered as a serious concern. According to the several evidence which shows that it has been traditionally considered in each of our society, it is an important social good, associated with a broad array of numerous profits in a society.

Moreover while concluding the entire discussion I must say if marriage is discontinued in America, as it is already accepted in some of the other western nations than our nations will also inherit a godless culture. We must answer it to prevent the consequences of the biblical marriage which persuades the culture to protect our relationships, family structure and the other societal order for the sake of the Gospel. Remember each of the relations are still related to our bloodlines, hence we can find these issues in each of the places no matter even the trends keeps on changing but the insights of our blood lines will still be continued for several upcoming era.

Reference:

S. Michael Craven, 2006. MARRIAGE & THE NATURAL FAMILY. Retrieved from:

http://www.battlefortruth.org/ArticlesDetail.asp?id=165

Jacob C. Toews, 2013, Is Marriage Outdated? Retrieved from: http://realtruth.org/articles/110222-002-marriage.html